Baby Shower Etiquette

BABY SHOWER ETIQUETTE FAQ’s:

1. Who can host a baby shower? Traditionally, the host of a baby shower is a close friend of the mom-to-be. Since the purpose of a baby shower is to “shower” the mom-to-be with gifts, you should not host your own baby shower. If someone does not offer to throw you a baby shower, then you can always host a “Welcome Home Baby” party after the baby is born to celebrate his/her arrival.

2. Is it ok to have a baby shower for my second (or subsequent) baby? These days, celebrating the birth of a second (or subsequent) child by having a baby shower is appropriate, particularly if it has been several years since the first one was born, and/or the baby is of opposite sex. If the child is born shortly after the previous one and happens to be the same sex, a “Welcome Home Baby” party may be a better option, since it can be assumed that the mother already has most of the baby items she’ll need. Having this type of party rather than a traditional shower will give people the opportunity to meet the new baby and celebrate his/her arrival without the pressure of giving a gift (most people will probably bring a gift anyway!).

3. When should the shower be held? Baby showers are usually given anywhere between the seventh and ninth month. You don't want to have the party too close to the due date of the mom-to-be in case she delivers earlier than expected, but when she is sporting a large belly at the party, it makes it more fun, so don't host it too early. Check with the mom-to-be to see what works for her.

4. Where should it be held? Most baby showers are held in someone's home. But restaurants, churches, banquet facilities, and parks are all nice options if your budget allows.